Thoughts are from heart/mind as people say, but some times these words make some one in such a situation that make there life a little worst if he/she take that word ina deeper sense.
for example let have a word "embrrassing"(some of you laugh when you find that why i used only this word), again i'm reapeating that the more deeper you think the more you make your mind to think, well i'm not to make you in such a way, but i know you will....
ok, come to the real topic, the word, from mind/heart, human nature, he/she can think only from either heart/ mind, if its from the heart then it always tell the truth what he/she has for the other person for whom the word he/she used. If its from the mind, then it may has a couple of things associated with it, firstly, sometimes to make people get attracted towrds yourself, secondly to contrast someone, thirdly to divert someone from the actual topic he/she begin with, and some in such a way...
most of the time when we friends set for the drinks, couple of times i heard such words from my friends for the others who are outsider, which not exist actually, like "yaar kasam se aisa hi hua tha, god promise", but actually the story of that incident is some way around, and in the morning when i questioned them about the story they said me "yaar daaru peekar har koi aisi state me hota hai ki all saying true and from the core of there heart, aur you have a very great oppurtunity over there to prove that how much true you are, to them, well a decieveing way to get a lead to something......., well couple of some other thing also exists there which havig the same story but some other way to implement.
so words are not only to have your thoughts well my suggestion ends with just a simple thing that what-so-ever be the situation take words as words not as they are ur life.
words like "I Love You", "Slap(noice of a slap from a girl when you propose her)", "Sorry not interested" etc., all are words but spoils the life of so many of us.
so take them as words not life, WORDS......, as you take, will affact you in the same.
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Hey man.. could not get it completely.. and still longing for an answer to my question.. that "word"
It was my own views buddy n i have the right to express, well feel very bad as u dint get the words, it wont b from the nxt time. [:)]
Yea, what you are probably trying to say here is that we should not take others word too seriously, as to affect our life in some way. Well, what I feel is that "a word" is a way to express what you have in your mind or heart. Sometimes we use words which we don't actually mean or words which doesn't actually reflect what we have in our heart or mind. Same is true with others. Sometimes we use some words for someone so casually without even realizing that it could hurt the other person badly. This other person can be you yourself.
You cannot avoid other people to say what they have to say. Good or Bad. But you yourself can make an effort to avoid using words which you many not like to hear when spoken to you by someone else. And this doesn't mean at all that we should not tell someone some thing in a fear of getting him hurt. Let people know what they have to know , and if it has to happen from your words, try to choose them carefully. Cuz words do make a difference.
Nice thought invoking blog. ulmunux
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