For we Guys

I was thinking this from the last so many days that whether i write this or not n fortunately/ unfortunately i'm writng this

a small few minutes ragging(an offence) of mine..., so .....
ragging reflects the way you handle the situation, when some people in a bunch make you to follow certain rules forcefully and you follow that, not for what they speak for but what you have thoughts for them.., well now I'm diverting the topic in such a way that make you to have some interest in this topic...

A small question to you all, What a girl is for you... (not resemble it with a mother, sister, daughter such relations), can you have the answer?
few answers from my side
first from a broken heart, girls are meant for some special guys,
second from a ditched one, they are bitch,
thrid from having a GF, they are really great,
forth from a dreamer, let have the one yaar,
fifth from someone else and soon...

Is its all true about a girl?
let have the definition of a girl, i know no need of it, but have a look to it.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Girl

in simple words i hope that all the relavant first, second n soon are using the same words but with a different view :)

now let we come back to the topic ragging, it was pretty nice experiece i had, as i never gave such a ragging earlier in my life, and here i was to choose a girl for all my seniors and also had to give 2-3 comments as why i choosed that girl, but very unfortunate this time as our department has too less girl to provide them with a singe and beautiful one and i was to find four, one for each, "saala apna chance to hai hi nahi", it was really great time that make me to get the meaning of a girl to find on google, and then wikipedia,

so a suggestion for all just have that word and find a girl for you.

Words........

Thoughts are from heart/mind as people say, but some times these words make some one in such a situation that make there life a little worst if he/she take that word ina deeper sense.
for example let have a word "embrrassing"(some of you laugh when you find that why i used only this word), again i'm reapeating that the more deeper you think the more you make your mind to think, well i'm not to make you in such a way, but i know you will....

ok, come to the real topic, the word, from mind/heart, human nature, he/she can think only from either heart/ mind, if its from the heart then it always tell the truth what he/she has for the other person for whom the word he/she used. If its from the mind, then it may has a couple of things associated with it, firstly, sometimes to make people get attracted towrds yourself, secondly to contrast someone, thirdly to divert someone from the actual topic he/she begin with, and some in such a way...
most of the time when we friends set for the drinks, couple of times i heard such words from my friends for the others who are outsider, which not exist actually, like "yaar kasam se aisa hi hua tha, god promise", but actually the story of that incident is some way around, and in the morning when i questioned them about the story they said me "yaar daaru peekar har koi aisi state me hota hai ki all saying true and from the core of there heart, aur you have a very great oppurtunity over there to prove that how much true you are, to them, well a decieveing way to get a lead to something......., well couple of some other thing also exists there which havig the same story but some other way to implement.

so words are not only to have your thoughts well my suggestion ends with just a simple thing that what-so-ever be the situation take words as words not as they are ur life.

words like "I Love You", "Slap(noice of a slap from a girl when you propose her)", "Sorry not interested" etc., all are words but spoils the life of so many of us.

so take them as words not life, WORDS......, as you take, will affact you in the same.